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Children develop skills at different rates, but by 14 years most young people will: ​​​

  • Talk in longer sentences; usually 7-12 words or more. 

  • Join sentences together using a range of joining words, such as ‘meanwhile’, ‘however’, ‘except’ so that they can explain more complicated ideas.  

  • Be able to use sarcasm and know when others are being sarcastic to them. 

  • Be able to change topics well in conversations. 

  • Use more subtle and witty humour. 

  • Show some understanding of idioms, such as “put your money where your mouth is!”. 

  • Know that they talk differently to friends than to teachers. They are able to adjust the way they are talking easily depending on who they are talking to. 

  • Understand and use slang terms with friends. They keep up with rapidly changing ‘street talk’. 

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Things to look out for:

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Some young people struggle with speech and language development. Possible signs to look at for at this age include: 

  • Difficulty giving specific answers or explanations. 

  • Difficulty telling their ideas in the right order. 

  • Better at understanding individual instructions than group instructions.  

  • Your child finds it difficult to understand hidden meanings. For example, they wouldn’t understand that someone wants to close the window or turn up the heating when they say, ‘It’s a bit chilly in here!’. 

  • Finding long and complicated instructions hard to understand. 

  • Your child has trouble learning new words. 

  • Your child takes a long time to organise what they are going to say or write. 

  • Your child takes what others say literally. For example, they don’t understand that someone could take longer than one minute if they say, “I’ll be back in a minute”. 

  • Your child has difficulty taking turns in conversations. 

  • Your child talks to teachers and friends in the same way instead of adjusting their style of talking based on who they are talking to. 

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Information from https://speechandlanguage.org.uk/help-for-families/ages-and-stages/

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Jane Richards

Speech and Language Therapist

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