
Children develop skills at different rates, but by 14 years most young people will:
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Talk in longer sentences; usually 7-12 words or more.
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Join sentences together using a range of joining words, such as ‘meanwhile’, ‘however’, ‘except’ so that they can explain more complicated ideas.
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Be able to use sarcasm and know when others are being sarcastic to them.
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Be able to change topics well in conversations.
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Use more subtle and witty humour.
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Show some understanding of idioms, such as “put your money where your mouth is!”.
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Know that they talk differently to friends than to teachers. They are able to adjust the way they are talking easily depending on who they are talking to.
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Understand and use slang terms with friends. They keep up with rapidly changing ‘street talk’.
Things to look out for:
Some young people struggle with speech and language development. Possible signs to look at for at this age include:
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Difficulty giving specific answers or explanations.
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Difficulty telling their ideas in the right order.
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Better at understanding individual instructions than group instructions.
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Your child finds it difficult to understand hidden meanings. For example, they wouldn’t understand that someone wants to close the window or turn up the heating when they say, ‘It’s a bit chilly in here!’.
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Finding long and complicated instructions hard to understand.
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Your child has trouble learning new words.
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Your child takes a long time to organise what they are going to say or write.
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Your child takes what others say literally. For example, they don’t understand that someone could take longer than one minute if they say, “I’ll be back in a minute”.
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Your child has difficulty taking turns in conversations.
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Your child talks to teachers and friends in the same way instead of adjusting their style of talking based on who they are talking to.
Information from https://speechandlanguage.org.uk/help-for-families/ages-and-stages/